We have been having a fascinating, wide-ranging discussion which I think boils down to a few basic-but-important questions: 1. Is it necessary to avoid shoulds, oughts, musts and why’s? in everyday speech? 2 What is the difference between “task-perfection” and “self-perfection.” 3. Can we be motivated without . . . 2,459 total views, 3 views today […]
2,459 total views, 3 views today
I need you too much already, lah! Well, that is they way we might say it in Thailand or other Southeast Asian countries. But in spite of the charming local syntax, I reckon that the irrational belief that drives this sentiment is very nearly universal. Taken to the the extreme, and combined in a cocktail of other […]
2,826 total views, 5 views today
Will practicing REBT turn you into a Pollyanna ??? 1,402 total views, no views today Originally posted 2016-12-30 03:55:27.
1,402 total views, no views today
valentine, love, romance, mating, dating, needs, preferences, disguised shoulds, musts
768 total views, no views today
Hi REBT-mates! Do you believe that when you want something, you absolutely MUST have it . . . and that it is terrible when you don’t get what you must have? 440 total views, 1 views today Originally posted 2016-05-09 02:14:28.
440 total views, 1 views today
Baby I Need Your Lovin' Baby, I need your lovin' I got to have all your lovin' Baby, I need your lovin' Got to have all your lovin' ~The Four Tops, 1964 Awwwwww! Ain't that romantic? Don't that just make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside? Ain't it the […]
2,493 total views, no views today