REBT-CBT is built on the premise that we all make fundamental mistakes in the way we think about ourselves, other people and life in general, and that these mistakes (irrational beliefs and cognitive distortions) are the real cause of (virtually all) of our misery and dysfunction and failure. This is so important! Continue reading to see a complete list, explanation of and tips for how to use the Ten Cognitive Distortions and Four IB’s (Irrational Beliefs) as conceptualized by David Burns, Aaron Beck and Albert Ellis.
Hi REBT Mates!
Here are the Ten Cognitive Distortions as conceptualized by David Burns based upon his work with Aaron Beck. Following them are what I refer to as The Big Four, the four irrational beliefs (IB’s) that drive emotional disturbance as conceptualized by Dr. Albert Ellis.
Both are valid! And there is nothing inherently magical or sacred about the numbers 10 or 4. They are just different perspectives on the same content and dynamics. All of the ten are contained within the Big Four. Burns could have just as easily organized them as 12 or 20 or 8. Lists of 10 items are always a catchy way to organize ideas when you are writing books and especially when you are trying to sell those books, but 10 and 4 are certainly not inherently more correct than any other number. The trick, I suppose, is to choose a number that is sufficiently informative while remaining “user friendly.”
I do wish that more people would take me up on my earnest recommendation that the process I describe below is the best way of catching fire with CBT, rather than just reading a book once, saying “My! Isn’t that nice!” and then going about your business never to think about it again!
|First, read, study and familiarize yourself each of the 10 distortions.|
- Then, memorize them! That’s right, I said “memorize” them. (You protest, “Rex! Surely jest!”) Nope! I realize that may seem really “old school” and about as much fun as a poke in the eye with a cattle prod . . . but it works! It really works, and after your initial investment of time and effort, will pay off by rapidly facilitating your understanding and use of CBT. Think about it. How can you ever learn and understand anything if you don’t first remember it? Or to put it another way, how can you possibly understand what you claim to know if you can’t remember it? If you normally use peg and link memory systems, it will be a snap. If not, just a little boring work. But the boring work will pay off in great dividends as you move toward being able to actually apply this process to your problems in a meaningful and useful way, rather than just “thinking about them.”
- Then, write about your problem, or choose something you have already written. You can do exactly the same thing with nearly anything that you or another person has written, fact or fiction, in the media or on social media to great benefit.
By the way, it is an amazingly helpful discipline and eye-opener to take any text from the news or media or literature and use the steps below to identify, dispute and replace cognitive distortions.
- With your list of Cognitive Distortions at hand, carefully go through the material you have collected and written to see how many of the distortions you can identify. Yellow highlight them. Especially, be on the lookout for any (moralistic) shoulds, oughts and musts, and disguised shoulds in the form of “Why?” questions and “I can’t believe it!”
- Go back over the highlighted distortions. Can you see (really “get it) that these distortions are indeed distorted, often completely false, illogical, irrational and most important, unhelpful. Can you see how these distortions are actually provoking and evoking unpleasant feelings and disturbed emotions? Great! Can you see how these emotions might be leading you to behave in ways which are unrewarding and self-defeating? Great!
- Do you really “get it”? Fine, now you can begin to replace each of these distorted thinking with thinking that is “cooler,” more rational, realistic and helpful, less provocative and inflammatory. Finally, do you believe what you are telling yourself? Really? Honest-to-goodness? Great!
Out with the . . . In with the . . .
Has your mood changed? On a scale of 1-5, to what extent has your mood improved? 1 = Not Much, 5 = Significantly.
I believe this process to be intuitively correct, a natural, organic process, which operates no matter whether you follow the procedure above or use the Burns Three Column Technique, or Ellis’s ABC method, or Edelstein’s Three Minute Technique, or some of the excellent forms on Will Ross’s at REBT Central. We have provided several excellent self-help forms for you to use. The technique and the form and the format are merely ways or organizing your thinking. Please, don’t get hung up on the form. I don’t care if you do this climbing a tree and talking to your cat. The object is to change the self-defeating beliefs that are making you miserable. The various techniques all lead to the same place and help you to
1. identity your distorted thinking,
2. see (really see, really get it) how these distortions upset you and lead to dysfunctional behavior,
3. Replace the distorted thinking with rational thinking,
4. behave in ways which help you to get more of what you want and less of what you do not want.
That’s all folks!
Continue reading to see the list of the ten cognitive distortions and the “The Big Four.”
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Definitions of Cognitive Distortions
1. ALL-OR-NOTHING THINKING:
You see things in black and white categories. If your performance falls short of perfect, you see yourself as a total failure.
2. OVER GENERALIZATION: You see a single negative event as a never-ending pattern of defeat.
3. MENTAL FILTER: You pick out a single negative detail and dwell on it exclusively so that your vision of all reality become darkened, like the drop of ink that discolors the entire beaker of water.
4. DISQUALIFYING THE POSITIVE: You reject positive experiences by
insisting they “don’t count” for some reason or another. In this way you can maintain a negative belief that is contradicted by your everyday experiences.
5. JUMPING TO CONCLUSIONS: You make a negative interpretation even though there are no definite facts that convincingly support your conclusion.
a. Mind Reading: You arbitrarily conclude that someone is reacting negatively to you, and you don’t bother to check this out.
b. The Fortune Teller Error: You anticipate that things will turn out badly, and you feel convinced that your prediction is an already established fact.
6. MAGNIFICATION (CATASTROPHIZING) OR MINIMIZATION (Ellis’s #2 below): You exaggerate the importance of things (such as your goof-up or someone else’s achievement) or you inappropriately shrink things until they appear tiny (your own desirable qualities or the other fellow’s imperfections). This is also called the “binocular trick.”
7. EMOTIONAL REASONING: You assume that your negative emotions
necessarily reflect the way things really are: “I feel it, therefore it must be true.”
8. SHOULD STATEMENTS (Ellis’s #1 below) : You try to motivate yourself with shoulds and
shouldn’ts, as if you had to be whipped and punished before you could be expected to do anything. “Musts” and “oughts” are also offenders. The emotional consequence is guilt. When you direct your should statements toward others, you feel anger, frustration, and resentment.
9. LABELING AND MISLABELING (Ellis’s #4 below): This is an extreme form of
over-generalization. Instead of describing your error, you attach a
negative label to yourself: “I’m a loser.” When someone else’s behavior rubs you the wrong way, you attach a negative label to him: “He’s a goddamn louse.” Mislabeling involves describing an event with language that is highly colored and emotionally loaded.
10. PERSONALIZATION: You see yourself as the cause of some negative
external event which in fact you were not primarily responsible for.
Table 3-1, _Feeling Good_
David D. Burns, MD
And Ellis reduces these IB’s to, as I call them,
“The Big Four”
(3) Low Frustration Tolerance, and
(4) People Rating,
It is worth noting that Dr. Ellis felt that all irrational beliefs ultimately are driven by absolutist, moralistic shoulds, oughts and musts, in other words demands.
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