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Self-help forms.

Willie T. has been making some interesting comments about whether REBT is “talk therapy” or something else. He shares some additional information which hits on a sore spot of mine–mechanically filling out forms–and is worth exploring in greater depth.  Here’s Willie.  We’ve taken the liberty of running the SpellCheck for him.  Hehehe . . . […]

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12 Lies We Tell Ourselves

Posted by Rex Alexander on Fri 10 Jun 22 in Ellis Four Irational Processes, ethics, Ten Cognitive Distortions, Uncategorized |

12 lies we tell ourselves by Albert Ellis 1. I must have the love and approval of others i must avoid disapproval at all costs. Click to see the other 11 . . .     2,551 total views,  1 views today Originally posted 2019-08-24 18:16:34.

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A reader is confused about labels and self-rating

Rate behavior . . . not self, and you are doing good ePrime and  on the right track for doing good REBT.  This process is even more comprehensible and user-friendly if you learn something about ePrime, which is not too much of a stretch    4,307 total views Originally posted 2013-07-17 02:39:22.

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I don’t care . . . It doesn’t matter!

Posted by Rex Alexander on Sat 4 Jun 22 in disqualifying the positive, Ten Cognitive Distortions, Uncategorized |

Did you know that “I don’t care” and “It doesn’t matter” can be disguised cognitive distortions?  1,926 total views,  1 views today Originally posted 2017-10-23 06:19:00.

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Three musts which hold us back

Posted by Rex Alexander on Wed 25 May 22 in Albert Ellis, Demanding, Disguised shoulds, musterbation, musty thinking, should statements |

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Armageddon

Posted by Rex Alexander on Mon 9 May 22 in Acceptance, Awfulzing, disqualifying the positive, Postive thinkikng, Rational living |

  My friend Jimmy from the REBT-CBT Yahoogroup is feeling gloomy about current events, and seeing some of the really nasty things going on in the news as heralding the breakdown of modern society.  He is hardly the first to make that observation. Here is what I said . . .  8,894 total views Originally posted 2015-07-30 07:37:31.

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Do you believe your thoughts?

Posted by Rex Alexander on Sat 7 May 22 in Ten Cognitive Distortions |

Are your thoughts true? Here is one for you.  When you are aware of  thinking a thought, do you automatically assume that it is true, factual and valid?  1,673 total views Originally posted 2017-09-20 07:37:03.

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Conversation with Aaron Beck, Founder Cognitive Therapy

  Fascinating Conversation with Aaron T. Beck, founder of Cognitive Therapy Watch this fascinating video about the life and times of Dr. Beck,  and join in the discussion.   5,904 total views,  1 views today Originally posted 2013-04-08 21:04:46.

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Disguised “Should” statments

Posted by Rex Alexander on Mon 28 Mar 22 in Disguised shoulds, musterbation, musty thinking, ought, should statements, Why? questions |

  REBT Mates, it may have been yours truly who coined the term “disguised shoulds.”  Click to find out why . . .  3,438 total views Originally posted 2017-01-30 21:19:36.

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Baby I Need Your Lovin’ . . . Really?

Posted by Rex Alexander on Sat 19 Mar 22 in Awfulzing, Demanding, Love and Romance, Needs vs. Preferences, should statements |

Baby I Need Your Lovin’| Baby, I need your lovin’ I got to have all your lovin’ Baby, I need your lovin’ Got to have all your lovin’ ~The Four Tops, 1964      Awwwwww!  Ain’t that romantic?  Don’t that just make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside?     Ain’t it the truth? […]

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