Is “should” ever necessary?
A faithful reader asks What’s the best response to “I should have ______ (done x y z more) and if I had, things would be different now”? Thank you.” Ah, yes! Our “Darling Shoulds!” How we resist relinquishing them! As if they were some jewel more precious than diamonds! 😉 7,931 total views […]
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Quotes That MatterBelieving that motivation is required before you can take action is a major cognitive distortion. Being motivated to do something is great, of course. However, better to think of motivation as a kind of "bonus," great when you can get it, but not required in order to act. If you believe you have to wait for motivation before you can act, you may be waiting around for a very long time indeed.Rex Alexander
REBTraining coach, author, founder REBTinfo.com
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