What is the difference between healthy & unhealthy emoting?
When adversities happen to people, they can choose to make themselves either (1) healthfully negative, sorry and regretful and annoyed and frustrated and disappointed about the happening or (2) unhealthfully negative . . . 1,296 total views, 36 views today Originally posted 2013-07-16 21:52:38.
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MUST I have what I want?
Do you believe that when you want something, you absolutely MUST have it . . . and that it is terrible when you don’t get what you must have? 948 total views, 1 views today Originally posted 2016-05-09 02:14:28.
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Disguised “Should” statments
REBT Mates, it may have been yours truly who coined the term “disguised shoulds.” Click to find out why . . . 1,916 total views, 1 views today Originally posted 2017-01-30 21:19:36.
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Should you read this?
HOMEWORK CHALLENGE Are you conscious of how and when you use the words should, must, ought, etc? Will you take the homework challenge this week? 420 total views, no views today Originally posted 2018-09-02 18:11:21.
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Is “indifference” a better option than “strong preference”?
Is “indifference” a valid alternative to having a “strong preference”? We have been having a lively one over that 4,026 total views, no views today Originally posted 2013-07-17 19:12:21.
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Masturbation is good and delicious. Musterbation is evil and pernicious! ~Albert Ellis, PhD Dr. Ellis sometimes used vulgarity and scandalous language . . . 2,554 total views, no views today Originally posted 2013-05-24 18:48:47.
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How to stop being offended by every little thing
The world would be a better place if everyone stopped being offended by every little thing.” 1,917 total views, no views today Originally posted 2016-06-18 09:45:44.
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Anger Management Workbook
The Anger Management Workbook: Use the S.T.O.P. Method to Replace Destructive Responses with Constructive Behavior 445 total views, no views today Originally posted 2018-12-09 03:20:41.
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To achieve anything in life, you have to make it a “must” ???
We have been having a fascinating, wide-ranging discussion which I think boils down to a few basic-but-important questions: 1. Is it necessary to avoid shoulds, oughts, musts and why’s? in everyday speech? 2 What is the difference between “task-perfection” and “self-perfection.” 3. Can we be motivated without . . . 3,181 total views, 2 views today […]
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What, more “darling shoulds?”
It’s true! I never tire of talking about my “darling shoulds.” 1,385 total views, no views today Originally posted 2015-03-20 05:06:07.
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Quotes That Matter
