
MUST I have what I want?
Do you believe that when you want something, you absolutely MUST have it . . . and that it is terrible when you don’t get what you must have? 1,389 total views Originally posted 2016-05-09 02:14:28.
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Should you read this?
HOMEWORK CHALLENGE Are you conscious of how and when you use the words should, must, ought, etc? Will you take the homework challenge this week? 716 total views Originally posted 2018-09-02 18:11:21.
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What, more “darling shoulds?”
It’s true! I never tire of talking about my “darling shoulds.” 1,908 total views Originally posted 2015-03-20 05:06:07.
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Masturbation is good and delicious. Musterbation is evil and pernicious! ~Albert Ellis, PhD Dr. Ellis sometimes used vulgarity and scandalous language . . . 3,718 total views Originally posted 2013-05-24 18:48:47.
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What is the difference between healthy & unhealthy emoting?
When adversities happen to people, they can choose to make themselves either (1) healthfully negative, sorry and regretful and annoyed and frustrated and disappointed about the happening or (2) unhealthfully negative . . . 2,415 total views Originally posted 2013-07-16 21:52:38.
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Disguised “Should” statments
REBT Mates, it may have been yours truly who coined the term “disguised shoulds.” Click to find out why . . . 2,548 total views Originally posted 2017-01-30 21:19:36.
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Anger Management Workbook
The Anger Management Workbook: Use the S.T.O.P. Method to Replace Destructive Responses with Constructive Behavior 923 total views Originally posted 2018-12-09 03:20:41.
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Whine! Whine! Whine!
Dr. Ellis loved making fun of his and our distorted thinking and irrational behavior with humorous rational songs, and limericks. Humor is, of course, fun, but also very powerful in helping us break the bonds of our irrational thinking. Here is a special video by Dr. Ellis singing his famous “Whine! Whine! Whine!” song […]
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Three musts which hold us back
3,610 total views Originally posted 2017-06-03 04:17:41.
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