What, more “darling shoulds?”
It’s true! I never tire of talking about my “darling shoulds.” 1,158 total views, 1 views today Originally posted 2015-03-20 05:06:07.
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Don’t take it personally!
Everyone is familiar with the expression “Don’t take it personally!” Good advice in my opinion, but what does it mean and how can we actually achieve it? 1,440 total views, no views today Originally posted 2016-04-29 21:30:29.
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Disguised “Should” statments
REBT Mates, it may have been yours truly who coined the term “disguised shoulds.” Dishonest “why” questions are one of the most obvious examples. Dishonest “whys” pretend to ask for an explanation when in fact they are really making a “should” statement. 1,531 total views, 2 views today Originally posted 2017-01-30 21:19:36.
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Tyrany of the Shoulds
In recent discussion, Amanda said : Going out for dinner is a choice, bleeding monthly is not, [therefore] it should be covered by our health care” 1,142 total views, no views today Originally posted 2017-01-23 04:52:14.
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Masturbation is good and delicious. Musterbation is evil and pernicious! ~Albert Ellis, PhD Dr. Ellis sometimes used vulgarity and scandalous language . . . 1,956 total views, no views today Originally posted 2013-05-24 18:48:47.
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How to stop being offended by every little thing
The world would be a better place if everyone stopped being offended by every little thing.” 1,484 total views, no views today Originally posted 2016-06-18 09:45:44.
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Guest Author, Dr. Edelstein
REBT (according to Ellis) posits that inappropriate negative emotions come from one type of irrational thinking . . . 1,444 total views, no views today Originally posted 2013-12-27 06:34:31.
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Whine! Whine! Whine!
Dr. Ellis loved making fun of his and our distorted thinking and irrational behavior with humorous rational songs, and limericks. Humor is, of course, fun, but also very powerful in helping us break the bonds of our irrational thinking. Here is a special video by Dr. Ellis singing his famous “Whine! Whine! Whine!” song about […]
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What is the difference between healthy & unhealthy emoting?
When adversities happen to people, they can choose to make themselves either (1) healthfully negative, sorry and regretful and annoyed and frustrated and disappointed about the happening or (2) unhealthfully negative . . . 845 total views, no views today Originally posted 2013-07-16 21:52:38.
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Quotes That Matter
