Masturbation is good and delicious. Musterbation is evil and pernicious! ~Albert Ellis, PhD Dr. Ellis sometimes used vulgarity and scandalous language . . . 2,464 total views, 4 views today Originally posted 2013-05-24 18:48:47.
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Do you believe that when you want something, you absolutely MUST have it . . . and that it is terrible when you don’t get what you must have? 844 total views, 1 views today Originally posted 2016-05-09 02:14:28.
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We have been having a fascinating, wide-ranging discussion which I think boils down to a few basic-but-important questions: 1. Is it necessary to avoid shoulds, oughts, musts and why’s? in everyday speech? 2 What is the difference between “task-perfection” and “self-perfection.” 3. Can we be motivated without . . . 3,134 total views, no views […]
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HOMEWORK CHALLENGE Are you conscious of how and when you use the words should, must, ought, etc? Will you take the homework challenge this week? 339 total views, no views today Originally posted 2018-09-02 18:11:21.
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People and things do not upset us. Rather, we upset ourselves by believing that they can upset us.” ~Albert Ellis 177 total views, no views today
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REBT Mates, it may have been yours truly who coined the term “disguised shoulds.” Click to find out why . . . 1,769 total views, 2 views today Originally posted 2017-01-30 21:19:36.
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I need you too much already, lah! Well, that is they way we might say it in Thailand or other Southeast Asian countries. But in spite of the charming local syntax, I reckon that the irrational belief that drives this sentiment is very nearly universal. Taken to the the extreme, and combined in a cocktail of other […]
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In recent discussion, Amanda said : Going out for dinner is a choice, bleeding monthly is not, [therefore] it should be covered by our health care” 1,273 total views, no views today Originally posted 2017-01-23 04:52:14.
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