People and things do not upset us. Rather, we upset ourselves by believing that they can upset us.” ~Albert Ellis 82 total views, 4 views today
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REBT Mates, it may have been yours truly who coined the term “disguised shoulds.” Click to find out why . . . 1,703 total views, 1 views today Originally posted 2017-01-30 21:19:36.
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I need you too much already, lah! Well, that is they way we might say it in Thailand or other Southeast Asian countries. But in spite of the charming local syntax, I reckon that the irrational belief that drives this sentiment is very nearly universal. Taken to the the extreme, and combined in a cocktail of other […]
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We have been having a fascinating, wide-ranging discussion which I think boils down to a few basic-but-important questions: 1. Is it necessary to avoid shoulds, oughts, musts and why’s? in everyday speech? 2 What is the difference between “task-perfection” and “self-perfection.” 3. Can we be motivated without . . . 2,972 total views, 1 views today […]
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In recent discussion, Amanda said : Going out for dinner is a choice, bleeding monthly is not, [therefore] it should be covered by our health care” 1,223 total views, 1 views today Originally posted 2017-01-23 04:52:14.
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Masturbation is good and delicious. Musterbation is evil and pernicious! ~Albert Ellis, PhD Dr. Ellis sometimes used vulgarity and scandalous language . . . 2,237 total views, 2 views today Originally posted 2013-05-24 18:48:47.
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