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Will Unconditional Self Acceptance make me lose my edge?

Sean B. in Florida writes: Rex.  I think I understand the idea of unconditional self acceptance, in theory at least. But I am afraid that adopting it will cause me to lose my edge and stop striving for excellence in my career.  If I accept myself unconditionally, then do I have to accept it if I […]

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What’s wrong with saying, “I am an EXCELLENT person” ???

Posted by Rex Alexander on Wed 17 Jan 18 in Acceptance, General Semantics, Self esteem, self vs. behavior, ULA, UOA, USA |

We have  bee having a lively–if somewhat perennial–discussion about why REBT dos not favor motivation and bolstering of “self esteem” by using global labels and “rating,”  such as “I am an EXCELLENT person.” 3,798 total views, no views today Originally posted 2014-01-06 22:41:50.

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The world sucks, and I can’t stand it!

Posted by Rex Alexander on Wed 8 Nov 17 in Acceptance |

Hi All, A reader complains about having difficulty controlling anxiety with regard to society and politics. What great questions! You bring up several related but separate issues. 1. CAN’T HELP THINKING! I doubt that this is true. You choose to think the thoughts you think . . . 545 total views, no views today Originally posted […]

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Escape the “Self Esteem” Trap! Today!

Posted by Rex Alexander on Tue 15 Aug 17 in Acceptance, Rating, Self esteem, self vs. behavior, ULA, UOA, USA |

  So called “self-esteem” is a fallacy, a racket invented by what I call the “Self Esteem MAFIA” . . .   467 total views, no views today Originally posted 2017-03-21 21:08:40.

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