MUST I have what I want?
Do you believe that when you want something, you absolutely MUST have it . . . and that it is terrible when you don’t get what you must have? 1,470 total views Originally posted 2016-05-09 02:14:28.
1,470 total views
To achieve anything in life, you have to make it a “must” ???
We have been having a fascinating, wide-ranging discussion which I think boils down to a few basic-but-important questions: 1. Is it necessary to avoid shoulds, oughts, musts and why’s? in everyday speech? 2 What is the difference between “task-perfection” and “self-perfection.” 3. Can we be motivated without . . . 3,974 total views, 11 views today […]
3,974 total views, 11 views today
It’s official! “Awfulize” is now a word!
Dr. Ellis coined the term “awfulize” by transforming the adjective “awful” into a verb. The language of REBT can sometimes sound a little contorted, especially when employing “ePrime,” in it’s preference for using more verbs and adverbs than nouns and adjectives. Now, it is official! “Awfulizing” has made it to the big time and is […]
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What is the difference between healthy & unhealthy emoting?
When adversities happen to people, they can choose to make themselves either (1) healthfully negative, sorry and regretful and annoyed and frustrated and disappointed about the happening or (2) unhealthfully negative . . . 2,752 total views Originally posted 2013-07-16 21:52:38.
2,752 total views
It’s my party and I’ll cry if I want to . . .
Click to listen to the great Lesley Gore great 1965 oldie, It’s My Party (and I’ll cry if I want to) We have been having an lively discussion about and adult who behaves with emotional immaturity such as avoiding attending a party for fear of seeing a rival there as a teenager might. 3,672 total views, 1 views […]
3,672 total views, 1 views today
Prince Ea finally admits to being a chronic musterbator! Are you one too? Click because you want to watch this amazing video and find out . . . 1,482 total views, 2 views today Originally posted 2019-09-20 20:37:27.
1,482 total views, 2 views today
A loyal reader asks about managing job burnout What a great topic! There is an expectation that has become common since the 1960’s that work is “supposed” to be fulfilling, satisfying, fun, even meaningful . . . 7,698 total views, 2 views today Originally posted 2013-06-25 02:53:25.
7,698 total views, 2 views today
Are opinions incompatible with REBT-CBT?
Are opinions incompatible with REBT??? What do you think? 1,493 total views Originally posted 2013-04-20 18:13:40.
1,493 total views
Task perfection vs. self-perfection.
Dare to be average! 2,646 total views Originally posted 2016-08-22 20:50:01.
2,646 total views
I need you too much already, lah! :o{
I need you too much already, lah! Four Tops – “Baby I Need Your Loving” (1966) 4,504 total views Originally posted 2013-08-01 18:17:04.
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Quotes That Matter
