REBT Mates, it may have been yours truly who coined the term “disguised shoulds.” Click to find out why . . . 3,539 total views Originally posted 2017-01-30 21:19:36.
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Do you believe that when you want something, you absolutely MUST have it . . . and that it is terrible when you don’t get what you must have? 1,926 total views Originally posted 2016-05-09 02:14:28.
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Perhaps there are such people as “pure philosophers” who placidly think about the “meaning of life” as a kind of “recreation,” and are not motivated to do so by existential angst. 6,678 total views Originally posted 2015-03-11 05:39:27.
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It’s true! I never tire of talking about my “darling shoulds.” 2,539 total views Originally posted 2015-03-20 05:06:07.
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HOMEWORK Avoid using moralistic, absolutist “shoulds”, “oughts”, “musts”, et al. We don’t want to be rigid and dogmatic in this (and in all things). While keeping in mind there are perfectly innocuous uses of “should”, “ought”, “must”, it is nonetheless an excellent discipline to make the effort to avoid them, and to monitor yourself using […]
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I would like to share an excellent video by Daniel Phillip. Dan’s short presentation impressed me because it offers a clear and “user-friendly” introduction to REBT, and provides some insight into REBT’s emphasis on “musty” thinking and “awfulizing.” I would like to see many more voices explaining and expanding on REBT-CBT. 2,465 total views Originally posted 2014-04-14 […]
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How do we deal with anxiety about the future of a son who is not doing well in high school? 5,128 total views Originally posted 2014-07-13 03:53:10.
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HOMEWORK CHALLENGE Are you conscious of how and when you use the words should, must, ought, etc? Will you take the homework challenge this week? 1,137 total views Originally posted 2018-09-02 18:11:21.
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In recent discussion, Amanda said : Going out for dinner is a choice, bleeding monthly is not, [therefore] it should be covered by our health care” 1,968 total views Originally posted 2017-01-23 04:52:14.
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