
Disguised “Should” statments
REBT Mates, it may have been yours truly who coined the term “disguised shoulds.” Click to find out why . . . 2,749 total views, 6 views today Originally posted 2017-01-30 21:19:36.
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Is a “Happy-go-lucky” attitude an answer to anxiety?
How do we deal with anxiety about the future of a son who is not doing well in high school? 4,579 total views, 2 views today Originally posted 2014-07-13 03:53:10.
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Whine! Whine! Whine!
Dr. Ellis loved making fun of his and our distorted thinking and irrational behavior with humorous rational songs, and limericks. Humor is, of course, fun, but also very powerful in helping us break the bonds of our irrational thinking. Here is a special video by Dr. Ellis singing his famous “Whine! Whine! Whine!” song […]
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Should you read this?
HOMEWORK CHALLENGE Are you conscious of how and when you use the words should, must, ought, etc? Will you take the homework challenge this week? 769 total views, 1 views today Originally posted 2018-09-02 18:11:21.
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To achieve anything in life, you have to make it a “must” ???
We have been having a fascinating, wide-ranging discussion which I think boils down to a few basic-but-important questions: 1. Is it necessary to avoid shoulds, oughts, musts and why’s? in everyday speech? 2 What is the difference between “task-perfection” and “self-perfection.” 3. Can we be motivated without . . . 3,900 total views, 3 views today […]
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Three musts which hold us back
3,857 total views, 2 views today Originally posted 2017-06-03 04:17:41.
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MUST I have what I want?
Do you believe that when you want something, you absolutely MUST have it . . . and that it is terrible when you don’t get what you must have? 1,455 total views, 1 views today Originally posted 2016-05-09 02:14:28.
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What, more “darling shoulds?”
It’s true! I never tire of talking about my “darling shoulds.” 1,960 total views, 2 views today Originally posted 2015-03-20 05:06:07.
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