Dr. Ellis loved making fun of his and our distorted thinking and irrational behavior with humorous rational songs, and limericks. Humor is, of course, fun, but also very powerful in helping us break the bonds of our irrational thinking. Here is a special video by Dr. Ellis singing his famous “Whine! Whine! Whine!” song […]
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REBT Mates, it may have been yours truly who coined the term “disguised shoulds.” Click to find out why . . . 1,701 total views, 2 views today Originally posted 2017-01-30 21:19:36.
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HOMEWORK OK, we know that REBT emphasizes various types of demands, including but not limited to, shoulds, oughts and musts, as well as a number of what I refer to as disguised shoulds typically insincere “Why?” questions. 1,952 total views, 1 views today Originally posted 2017-06-03 04:17:41.
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Hi REBT-mates! Do you believe that when you want something, you absolutely MUST have it . . . and that it is terrible when you don’t get what you must have? 701 total views, no views today Originally posted 2016-05-09 02:14:28.
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We have been having a fascinating, wide-ranging discussion which I think boils down to a few basic-but-important questions: 1. Is it necessary to avoid shoulds, oughts, musts and why’s? in everyday speech? 2 What is the difference between “task-perfection” and “self-perfection.” 3. Can we be motivated without . . . 2,970 total views, 2 views today […]
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It’s true! I never tire of talking about my “darling shoulds.” 1,286 total views, no views today Originally posted 2015-03-20 05:06:07.
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In recent discussion, Amanda said : Going out for dinner is a choice, bleeding monthly is not, [therefore] it should be covered by our health care” 1,221 total views, no views today Originally posted 2017-01-23 04:52:14.
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How do we deal with anxiety about the future of a son who is not doing well in high school? 3,987 total views, 3 views today Originally posted 2014-07-13 03:53:10.
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