REBT Mates, it may have been yours truly who coined the term “disguised shoulds.” Click to find out why . . . 3,539 total views Originally posted 2017-01-30 21:19:36.
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Do you believe that when you want something, you absolutely MUST have it . . . and that it is terrible when you don’t get what you must have? 1,927 total views, 1 views today Originally posted 2016-05-09 02:14:28.
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Perhaps there are such people as “pure philosophers” who placidly think about the “meaning of life” as a kind of “recreation,” and are not motivated to do so by existential angst. 6,678 total views Originally posted 2015-03-11 05:39:27.
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It’s true! I never tire of talking about my “darling shoulds.” 2,539 total views Originally posted 2015-03-20 05:06:07.
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How do we deal with anxiety about the future of a son who is not doing well in high school? 5,128 total views Originally posted 2014-07-13 03:53:10.
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HOMEWORK CHALLENGE Are you conscious of how and when you use the words should, must, ought, etc? Will you take the homework challenge this week? 1,137 total views Originally posted 2018-09-02 18:11:21.
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In recent discussion, Amanda said : Going out for dinner is a choice, bleeding monthly is not, [therefore] it should be covered by our health care” 1,968 total views Originally posted 2017-01-23 04:52:14.
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Dr. Ellis loved making fun of his and our distorted thinking and irrational behavior with humorous rational songs, and limericks. Humor is, of course, fun, but also very powerful in helping us break the bonds of our irrational thinking. Here is a special video by Dr. Ellis singing his famous “Whine! Whine! Whine!” song […]
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We have been having a fascinating, wide-ranging discussion which I think boils down to a few basic-but-important questions: 1. Is it necessary to avoid shoulds, oughts, musts and why’s? in everyday speech? 2 What is the difference between “task-perfection” and “self-perfection.” 3. Can we be motivated without . . . 4,562 total views Originally posted […]
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