Prince Ea finally admits to being a chronic musterbator! Are you one too? Click because you want to watch this amazing video and find out . . . 1,248 total views, 8 views today Originally posted 2019-09-20 20:37:27.
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Disguised “Should” statments
REBT Mates, it may have been yours truly who coined the term “disguised shoulds.” Click to find out why . . . 2,748 total views, 5 views today Originally posted 2017-01-30 21:19:36.
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Is a “Happy-go-lucky” attitude an answer to anxiety?
How do we deal with anxiety about the future of a son who is not doing well in high school? 4,579 total views, 2 views today Originally posted 2014-07-13 03:53:10.
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Disguised shoulds?
Greta Van Susteren, former Fox News Analyst Are Greta’s “disguised shoulds” showing? We have been talking about the model of REBT where demanding (shoulds, oughts, musts, etc.) are at the root of disturbance. I thought it might be a good occasion to reprise my concept of “disguised shoulds.” 4,185 total views, 1 views today Originally posted 2014-10-01 […]
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Whine! Whine! Whine!
Dr. Ellis loved making fun of his and our distorted thinking and irrational behavior with humorous rational songs, and limericks. Humor is, of course, fun, but also very powerful in helping us break the bonds of our irrational thinking. Here is a special video by Dr. Ellis singing his famous “Whine! Whine! Whine!” song […]
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Should you read this?
HOMEWORK CHALLENGE Are you conscious of how and when you use the words should, must, ought, etc? Will you take the homework challenge this week? 769 total views, 1 views today Originally posted 2018-09-02 18:11:21.
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To achieve anything in life, you have to make it a “must” ???
We have been having a fascinating, wide-ranging discussion which I think boils down to a few basic-but-important questions: 1. Is it necessary to avoid shoulds, oughts, musts and why’s? in everyday speech? 2 What is the difference between “task-perfection” and “self-perfection.” 3. Can we be motivated without . . . 3,899 total views, 2 views today […]
3,899 total views, 2 views today
Three musts which hold us back
3,857 total views, 2 views today Originally posted 2017-06-03 04:17:41.
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MUST I have what I want?
Do you believe that when you want something, you absolutely MUST have it . . . and that it is terrible when you don’t get what you must have? 1,455 total views, 1 views today Originally posted 2016-05-09 02:14:28.
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What, more “darling shoulds?”
It’s true! I never tire of talking about my “darling shoulds.” 1,959 total views, 1 views today Originally posted 2015-03-20 05:06:07.
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Quotes That Matter
