“Sensitive Souls” and Managing Painful Emotions

Posted by Rex Alexander on Wed 22 Oct 25 in Cognitve (Behavior) Therapy, David Burns, Uncategorized, zz-MONTH-5 with Comments closed |

“Sensitive Souls”
and Managing Painful Emotions.

If you are a “sensitive soul,” depending upon your resources and circumstances, you may be faced with the dilemma of building, and then closing yourself in a walled, perfumed garden so that all the suffering, tragedy and injustice in the world cannot get to you. Or, on the other hand, operate as a “bleeding heart,” and possibly become depressed, immobilized, bitter and resentful, or otherwise find it difficult to function and enjoying life.

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Originally posted 2022-06-23 11:40:39.

Enlightened self-interest???

Posted by Rex Alexander on Wed 22 Oct 25 in Living in a social group, Self-interest with Comments closed |

 . . .  human beings had better mind the fact that they live in a social world and that a philosophy of self-interest, where a person places him or herself first, also implies putting others a close second. 
The Practice of Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy” 
                               ~Ellis, Dryden.

 

 

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Originally posted 2013-08-07 19:12:41.

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Posted by Rex Alexander on Tue 21 Oct 25 in Anxiety, hypnosis, Social Anxiety, z-15 with Comments closed |

 

Shyness-Social Anxiety
are not a joke!
But you CAN overcome them!

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Originally posted 2020-02-22 10:45:38.

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Posted by Rex Alexander on Tue 21 Oct 25 in Announcements with Comments closed |

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Originally posted 2019-04-13 04:38:10.

How do we know whether our values are right or wrong?

Posted by Rex Alexander on Mon 20 Oct 25 in morality, Rational living, Rational Thinking with Comments closed |

 

We have been having a fascinating discussion at the REBT-CBT Yahoogroup about REBT and values.   A member points out that everyone has a collection of values; things and qualities which are important to them., and asks what REBT says about values and–more interesting–how do we know whether our values are right or wrong?

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Originally posted 2013-06-20 19:57:19.

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Search me!

Posted by Rex Alexander on Mon 20 Oct 25 in Admin, Announcements with Comments closed |
One of our important goals in developing the REBT Info website has been to build a permanent archive of REBT-CBT and related content available to professionals, students, fans and “civilians” alike. To realize this and to make it practical we, of course, have to have an excellent search facility to allow users quickly find the posts, articles and content they are looking for.

 

 Voila! We have such a facility and invite our REBT Mates to make liberal use of it. You will find it on the right-hand side bar near the top. Search for people, books, articles, titles, subjects, anything.  No special training to operate it is required! 

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Originally posted 2018-12-05 02:46:36.

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Posted by Rex Alexander on Sun 19 Oct 25 in quotes, Rational living, Rational Thinking with Comments closed |

Even though I don’t I don’t think I’ll convert the world to rationality, I may influence an occasional person here and there. And every small addition to the sum total of rationality is precious.                      ~Isaac Asimov -1988″

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Originally posted 2017-07-28 07:02:06.

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How to deal with your past errors?

Posted by Rex Alexander on Sun 19 Oct 25 in Albert Ellis, damning, downing, Ellis Quotes, People Rating, Rating, Shame, USA with Comments closed |


By honestly acknowledging your past errors, but never damning yourself for them, you can learn to use your past for your own future.”

~Albert Ellis
 

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Originally posted 2017-06-17 06:21:04.

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Whine! Whine! Whine!

Posted by Rex Alexander on Sat 18 Oct 25 in Albert Ellis, Demanding, must, musterbation, musty thinking, Rational Songs & Limericks, Videos with Comments closed |

 

 Dr. Ellis loved making fun of his and our distorted thinking and irrational behavior with humorous rational songs, and  limericks. Humor is, of course, fun, but also very powerful in helping us break the bonds of our irrational thinking.  Here is a special video by Dr. Ellis singing his famous “Whine! Whine! Whine!” song about demanding and “musty” thinking.

 

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Originally posted 2017-06-22 02:56:07.

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Are you “rational”?

Posted by Rex Alexander on Sat 18 Oct 25 in Basics, Happiness, Rational living, Rational Thinking with Comments closed |
mrspock 
The word rational is obviously fundamental to REBT. After all, we are Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy. However, I am afraid this is misleading to many as REBT uses the word in a special way . . .

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Originally posted 2015-08-29 05:33:32.

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