To achieve anything in life, you have to make it a “must” ???

Posted by Rex Alexander on Wed 1 Oct 25 in Albert Ellis, Demanding, must, musterbation, musty thinking, Needs vs. Preferences, Wants vs. needs |

We have been having a fascinating, wide-ranging discussion which I think boils down to a few basic-but-important questions: 1. Is it necessary to avoid shoulds, oughts, musts and why’s? in everyday speech? 2 What is the difference between “task-perfection” and “self-perfection.” 3. Can we be motivated without . . .   Originally posted 2013-02-25 23:01:10.

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Dr. Ellis, a wounded psychotherapist (???)

Posted by Rex Alexander on Tue 30 Sep 25 in Albert Ellis, Books & Media, REBT & Other therapies compared |

  A Wounded Psychotherapist: The childhood of Dr Albert Ellis, and the limitations of REBT/CBT by Dr Jim Byrne Foreword This book represents an attempt to deconstruct Dr Albert Ellis’s story of his childhood . . .     Originally posted 2013-06-14 04:03:46.

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Three musts which hold us back

Posted by Rex Alexander on Wed 24 Sep 25 in Albert Ellis, Demanding, Disguised shoulds, musterbation, musty thinking, should statements |

Originally posted 2017-06-03 04:17:41.

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Stoic Philosophy and REBT

  The gods have released you from accountability for your parents, your siblings, your body, your possessions – for death and for life itself. They made you responsible only for what is in your power – the proper use of impressions. So why take on the burden of matters which you cannot answer for? You […]

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Acceptance is not love!

   Acceptance is not love. You love a person because he or she has lovable traits, but you accept everybody just because they’re alive and human.” ~Albert Ellis Originally posted 2013-05-02 07:39:44.

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What is the difference between healthy & unhealthy emoting?

Posted by Rex Alexander on Wed 10 Sep 25 in Albert Ellis, Demanding, Emotions |

  When adversities happen to people, they can choose to make themselves either (1) healthfully negative, sorry and regretful and annoyed and frustrated and disappointed about the happening  or (2) unhealthfully negative . . .    Originally posted 2013-07-16 21:52:38.

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Posted by Rex Alexander on Thu 7 Nov 19 in Albert Ellis, Albert Ellis Institute / AEI, zomit |

 

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      Celebrating 60 Years of Incorporation! The Albert Ellis Institute is pleased to announce our 60th year of being incorporated as a nonprofit organization! Proceeds will contribute to the Albert Ellis Institute’s outreach, advocacy, prevention and intervention for individuals in need of psychological services who may not otherwise have access. Visit our Website […]

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Broadening the appeal of REBT CBT?

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AEI Expansion Plans

Posted by Rex Alexander on Fri 14 Jul 17 in Albert Ellis, News |

From:  Albert Ellis Institute <info@albertellis.org> Subject:  An important announcement Date: Fri, 19 Jul 2013 17:02:02 -0400 (EDT) To:  Rex. … @ > The Board of Trustees of the Albert Ellis Institute is delighted to announce the next phase of its expansion, growth, and development. Originally posted 2013-07-19 18:00:41.

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