I NEED love! (not!)

Posted by Rex Alexander on Tue 17 Feb 26 in Albert Ellis, Dire need for love & approval |

People are often surprised that REBT considers “need” to be an irrational belief (IB) in-and-of-itself . . . except at the level of basic survival needs such as food and shelter, and I would speculate appropriate attachment between mother and infant. Click the link to watch a video about Harlow’s famous Monkey Experiment (may be […]

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Politically Correct vs. Free Speech? What on Earth could REBT have to say about “political correctness” vs. free speech? Originally posted 2014-06-25 07:11:21.

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Vote to get Guide to Rational Living on Kindle!

Posted by Rex Alexander on Sun 8 Feb 26 in Albert Ellis, Announcements, Books & Media, bookshop |

  Please vote to get A Guide to Rational living  published on Kindle! Originally posted 2018-12-04 05:37:40.

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Can you dispute a “secondary disburbance”?

Posted by Rex Alexander on Thu 5 Feb 26 in Albert Ellis, Cognitve (Behavior) Therapy, David Burns, Disputing, Secondary Disturbance |

A reader asks what David Burns means in Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy when he says that you cannot dispute a feeling, you can only dispute a thought.    Originally posted 2012-09-21 05:22:16.

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REBT and the Subconscious Mind

Posted by Rex Alexander on Sat 31 Jan 26 in Albert Ellis, REBT & Other therapies compared |

A loyal reader asks what Dr.Ellis had to say about the subconscious mind.  Originally posted 2014-06-10 03:41:30.

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Posted by Rex Alexander on Sat 24 Jan 26 in Acceptance, Albert Ellis, social media, Uncategorized, USA |

  Originally posted 2019-11-01 12:42:29.

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REBT, Mindfulness, Behaviorism potpourri

  From Vipasana to Zen to Mindfulness to CBT-REBT to Acceptance to the “Third Wave” of behaviorism, to Tourette’s (and maybe a few comments about the kitchen sink as well) Originally posted 2015-07-05 04:09:57.

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Will there always be an REBT?

Posted by Rex Alexander on Wed 14 Jan 26 in Albert Ellis, REBT & Other therapies compared |

On another blog, a friend was gently ribbing me about my interest in “kooky” stuff like TaiChi and biofeedback  that has little to do with REBT-CBT. Originally posted 2013-02-28 02:06:26.

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How to Keep People From Pushing Your Buttons!

Posted by Rex Alexander on Mon 12 Jan 26 in Albert Ellis, Anger, Books & Media, bookshop, Demanding, Low Frustration Tolerance |

God knows, we all need this one these days!   Originally posted 2018-12-10 12:00:48.

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What, more “darling shoulds?”

Posted by Rex Alexander on Tue 6 Jan 26 in Albert Ellis, Demanding, musterbation, musty thinking, Religion, should statements |

  It’s true!  I never tire of talking about my “darling shoulds.”   Originally posted 2015-03-20 05:06:07.

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