Posted by Rex Alexander on Fri 17 Jan 25 in Anger, Demanding, Uncategorized with Comments closed |

 

    

People and things do not upset us. Rather, we upset ourselves by believing that they can upset us.” ~Albert Ellis

 

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Originally posted 2019-09-10 23:05:13.

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Is keeping emotions “bottled up” dangerous?

In my callow and shallow youth, I used to subscribe to the “teapot model” of emotions.  You know, our emotional systems are like teapots with water boiling, generating steam and pressure.  If the steam does not have an outlet, or the outlet becomes overwhelmed by too much steam expanding too quickly . . . POW !!!  Explosion !!! 

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Originally posted 2013-04-22 20:25:00.

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More than 20 titles by Dr. Ellis now available on Kindle

Posted by Rex Alexander on Thu 16 Jan 25 in Books & Media with Comments closed |

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MANY MORE DR. ELLIS TITLES NOW OUT ON KINDLE

 

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Originally posted 2012-11-14 22:32:58.

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I cried because I had no shoes…

Posted by Rex Alexander on Thu 16 Jan 25 in Awfulzing, Emotions, Guilt & Shame with Comments closed |
I cried because I had no shoes . .

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Originally posted 2017-03-25 07:16:16.

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Unveiling the Magic of Greetings and Goodbyes

Posted by Rex Alexander on Wed 15 Jan 25 in communication, Mindfulness, z-monthly with Comments closed |

Musings from the Comfort of My Bed:
Unveiling the Magic of Greetings and Goodbyes

Good Morning Friends (and I really do hope you are having a good morning!) Picture this: I’m lying in bed this morning, not fully awake, but lost in a my meandering thoughts thoughts. For whatever reason, I go to thinking about something we all do—greetings and goodbyes. You know, those little rituals we perform almost automatically? According to TA (Transactional Analysis) They’re the most basic form of human connection. “Hello” responded to by “Hello” is a single transaction. It would be difficult to get much more basic other than perhaps a head nod. But here’s the thing: at least in the West, they’ve become second nature, almost like a reflex, and we hardly give them a second thought. In fact, they are often completely automatic and unconscious. They’re just the social grease that keeps our daily interactions rolling smoothly.

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Originally posted 2023-07-17 10:21:58.

What is the purpose of life?

We have been having a great time with our friends over at the REBT-CBT Forum discussing the timeless question, What is the Purpose of Life?  Actually, REBT has quite a bit to say about this, but I fear that what it has to say is not very satisfying to those who raise the question!  Click the blue link below to read my take and to jon the discussion.

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Originally posted 2013-10-20 21:57:41.

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Posted by Rex Alexander on Tue 14 Jan 25 in Emotions, Uncategorized, Videos with Comments closed |

Do you STILL think that events
cause your emotions???

Neuroscience says “No!”

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Originally posted 2018-01-05 20:32:19.

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Your participation in our life blood!

Posted by Rex Alexander on Tue 14 Jan 25 in Uncategorized with Comments closed |

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Originally posted 2017-07-14 06:31:10.

Posted by Rex Alexander on Mon 13 Jan 25 in Books & Media, bookshop, Rational living, Uncategorized with Comments closed |


Clean Meat: How Growing Meat Without Animals Will Revolutionize Dinner and the World
~Rex 
   

 

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Originally posted 2019-06-28 17:55:59.

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REBT

Posted by Rex Alexander on Mon 13 Jan 25 in Albert Ellis, Basics, REBT, REBT & Other therapies compared with Comments closed |
Read the Wikipedia article about REBT Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy 

 

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Originally posted 2017-10-23 06:52:38.

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