It’s settled! Laughter is the best policy!

Posted by Rex Alexander on Tue 22 Apr 25 in Anger, Humor, Uncategorized |

Grrrrrrr or Hahahaha ??? When something goes wrong, is it “”REBT Kosher” to intentionally laugh rather than lash out in anger?   Originally posted 2015-07-28 03:11:17.

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How to stop being offended by every little thing

The world would be a better place if everyone stopped being offended by every little thing.” Originally posted 2016-06-18 09:45:44.

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How to Keep People From Pushing Your Buttons!

Posted by Rex Alexander on Fri 7 Feb 25 in Albert Ellis, Anger, Books & Media, bookshop, Demanding, Low Frustration Tolerance |

God knows, we all need this one these days!   Originally posted 2018-12-10 12:00:48.

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Posted by Rex Alexander on Fri 24 Jan 25 in Anger, Culture, internet addiction, social media |

Facebook, Twitter, et al benefit when you are pissed off! They like it when you are pissed off, angry, outraged, offended.  Watch this amazing 17 minute video and share your comments after . . . Originally posted 2019-05-22 07:11:23.

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Posted by Rex Alexander on Fri 17 Jan 25 in Anger, Demanding, Uncategorized |

       People and things do not upset us. Rather, we upset ourselves by believing that they can upset us.” ~Albert Ellis   Originally posted 2019-09-10 23:05:13.

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Is keeping emotions “bottled up” dangerous?

In my callow and shallow youth, I used to subscribe to the “teapot model” of emotions.  You know, our emotional systems are like teapots with water boiling, generating steam and pressure.  If the steam does not have an outlet, or the outlet becomes overwhelmed by too much steam expanding too quickly . . . POW !!!  Explosion […]

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Posted by Rex Alexander on Tue 14 Jan 25 in Emotions, Uncategorized, Videos |

Do you STILL think that events cause your emotions??? Neuroscience says “No!” Originally posted 2018-01-05 20:32:19.

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Posted by Rex Alexander on Wed 8 Jan 25 in Albert Ellis, Anger, Awfulzing, Books & Media, bookshop, damning, Uncategorized, Videos |

Originally posted 2019-03-14 20:12:41.

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More “expliding teapot theory”

Sometimes people try to find ways to express their anger in a less dangerous    way…. Originally posted 2013-05-03 19:26:38.

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Don’t take it personally!

Posted by Rex Alexander on Wed 1 Jan 25 in Emotions, Rational living, Rational Thinking |

Everyone is familiar with the expression “Don’t take it personally!” Good advice in my opinion, but what does it mean and how can we actually achieve it? Originally posted 2016-04-29 21:30:29.

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