Avoid shoulds, oughts, musts!
HOMEWORK
Avoid using moralistic, absolutist “shoulds”, “oughts”, “musts”, et al. We don’t want to be rigid and dogmatic in this (and in all things). While keeping in mind there are perfectly innocuous uses of “should”, “ought”, “must”, it is nonetheless an excellent discipline to make the effort to avoid them, and to monitor yourself using these terms, whether directed at others or yourself. Then, when you notice that you have used one of these terms, practice replacing it with something less demanding. For example
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Originally posted 2019-05-09 20:43:44.
Thought as Sensation
When we encounter the word “sensation,” I guess most of us immediately think of physical or tactile sensations such as, heat, cold, pressure, tingling, pain, etc. However, the application of the definition is much broader than that. It can and does describe various mental processes that arise from an external stimulation of a sense organ.
Originally posted 2022-08-12 18:15:34.
Do anti-depressant medications work?
We have been having a fascinating discussion that I reckon is best framed as “Do antidepressant medications work?” |
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Originally posted 2013-08-06 19:00:08.
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“Law of Attraction” compatible with REBT?
We have been having a lively discussion on the former REBT-CBT Forum about where (if anywhere) the “Law of Attraction” and “Creative Visualization” fit into REBT. |
Originally posted 2013-05-21 20:43:16.
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Originally posted 2019-03-07 00:05:52.
Only understand REBT “intellectually”?
What if you only understand your REBT process “intellectually”?
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Originally posted 2013-11-27 03:09:37.
New Feature: Read any good books lately?
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Originally posted 2013-04-30 03:48:13.